Perhaps you’ve been dreaming of your wedding since kindergarten. 

You’ve got your songs picked out, and have a vivid image of walking down a rose petaled aisle.

Or maybe, weddings were never in the forefront of your imagination – until now.

No matter who you are in this scenario, if you haven’t experienced this yet, you will.

Wedding planning brings it out in people. From friends to family members, everyone is full of ideas for how you should celebrate your wedding.

As a result, many cave. They end up planning a wedding based on what other people want – or what they think other people expect.

In the whirlwind of wedding planning, it can be easy to forget: this is your day. A day intended for you and your fiancé to celebrate your love.

And what better way to do that than by picking a wedding theme that fits your personality?

Sound good? 

Here, we go over everything to help you choose a wedding theme that’s perfect for you.

The “B” Word

One of the first things everyone needs to consider when planning a wedding is budget. Things add up quickly!

Establishing a budget you and your fiancée are comfortable with early on in the planning phase, helps inform the choices you make as you continue.

For example, if you picture tying the knot in a castle in Ireland – but only have $5,000 in your budget – it’s highly unlikely you’ll be able to make that happen. But that doesn’t mean you can’t incorporate elements of that vision into your big day…

Your Dream Wedding

Take a moment (if you really want to get into it, grab a pen and paper!) and brainstorm your dream wedding. 

Again, this is your wedding. Not your step moms, your sisters, or aunt Cindy’s. 

It’s time to visualize. Time to walk yourself through the whole experience.

Here are some prompts to get you going:

• Is it like something you’ve seen in a movie, and if so, which one?
• Do you see a country aesthetic? Is it rustic?
• Is it outdoors? A forest or beach wedding?
• How’s it decorated?  Are you getting excited looking at something industrial, and marveling over how irresistible it is when combined with soft, warm, romantic touches?
• If there are flowers, what color are they?
• Are there twinkly lights, mason jars with little tea light candles emitting a flickering flame?
• Does your dream wedding take place in a rustic barn with high ceilings, warmly lit by chandeliers hanging from the rafters, or is it a tropical beach wedding?
• What are your guests wearing?
• What cut, color, and style of dress are your bridesmaids wearing?

Really get into it, get excited! Jot down all the gorgeous details so you don’t forget.

Your Themes

Another way to incorporate you into your wedding is to consider, well, who are you? 

To get a clearer picture, let’s take a look at your home and how you spend your time.

Your Home

How is it decorated?

Do you have a specific decorating theme you can’t get enough of?

Are there colors you’re naturally drawn to, certain textiles? Do you like a minimalist look, or do you gravitate to a fun, colorful, eclectic mix that totally fits your bubbly personality?

Take your favorite parts (and if your home isn’t where you’d like it to be, use your dream space for inspiration) and incorporate them into your wedding.

Your Free Time

How you spend your free time says a lot about you and your personality, so it makes sense to weave it into your wedding theme as well.

If you love nature for example, pick your favorite setting and celebrate your nuptials there.

Are you a sucker for fantasy romance novels? Why not incorporate some of the lush, mysterious, magical feel into your big day. Pay homage to your love of that genre by adding little touches of ethereal otherworldly romance.

If you’re a country girl at heart, you probably love everything that has to do with that aesthetic. In that case, a rustic country themed wedding is a no brainer.

Love sports and competition? Your guests will get a kick out of a bridesmaid vs. groomsmen relay race… or even better, you and your fiancée should compete!

The point is, there are so many ways to make your wedding uniquely yours, and find a theme that aligns with your personality. 

Conclusion:

After contemplating all the things you value, enjoy, and find beautiful, you’re free to incorporate them into your special day, however you see fit.

Remember, there’s no need to go overboard, just pay attention to the details.

After all, there’s no right or wrong way to celebrate your wedding… no matter what aunt Cindy has to say.